Depressed? Listen to Your Body

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Freddie Strasser (2005), writes about sadness and depression, “When sadness arrives at an extreme point in one’s life, when life becomes meaningless and there is no hope of regaining one’s self esteem, then depression may ensue. Meaninglessness is a void that goes beyond sadness when an individual loses all hope.  “ (page 86).

In this quote Strasser helps us to differentiate between sadness and depression. As human beings sadness is a common emotion we can feel from time to time. When things do not work out the way we expect or hope sadness is a natural feeing.  We may feeling let down by others or by ourselves. Depression though is more intense, it is a hopeless, helpless feeling of not having any energy to exert oneself to be able to even make the smallest change in one’s life.

How does one start to make the changes needed to help themselves through depression?  I believe the first step is to consult with your medical doctor. Are you suffering with clinical depression? Do you need antidepressants or anti anxiety medication? Is there an option to start natural remedies first? Do you need to be referred to a psychologist for an evaluation? All these questions need to be answered to begin with by your medical doctor to assess your starting point and any further referrals you may need.

Once the medical side is taken care of, you may want to consider starting talking therapy.  Psychotherapy and counselling is very helpful for people suffering with depression . The therapist provides a safe non judgmental space to be able to acknowledge your issues and work through them. All therapists work differently due to their training and experience so please make sure to check their qualifications and experience at the beginning of your work together. It is vital that you feel safe, respected and cared about in the therapy, and you will feel that by the end of the first session. If you do not feel this way then please do leave and find another therapist.

When suffering with depression everything feels too much, and you may want to curl into the fatal position and go to bed. Sleep is an anaesetic  and so it feels very inviting.  The opposite from staying still is movement. A lot of research has taken place about the link of exercise benefits and depression.  Windy Dryden and Jack Gordon (2000) write, “ Some activity is good for you: action forces you to interrupt the flow of depression- sustaining ideas such as ‘no one cares how i feel’ .” ( p46)

When feeling depressed you may feel insecure, and a sense of despair may be hovering over you. I would recommend you eliminating as much pressure around you as possible. Perhaps taking some time off work may be helpful speak that option through with your manager and medical doctor to see what is best for you. As each person is in a different situation it is impossible to give a one size fits all answer. For some remaining in work but reducing hours may feel better.

Listening to your body when depressed is very important. If you feel the overwhelming need to sleep then give yourself permission to sleep in the day at times. Try to balance it out with taking in some fresh air and exercising gently for example walking around your block and then going to sleep for half an hour.

Bibliography

Dryden, W and Gordon, J (2000) Think your way to happiness.  Sheldon Press

Strasser, F ( 2005)Emotions. Gerald Duckworth & Co.

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Aviva Barnett

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Aviva Keren Barnett (PgD, M.A ) is a UKCP registered existential psychotherapist and counselor. Aviva holds a Master of Arts in Existential Psychotherapy and Counselling. Aviva, a very passionate therapist, works with individuals on a private basis.
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